As I look at some women today-specifically the women I went to high school with- I can't help but shake my head at how they are currently living here in 2010. Some of them have gone on to live successful, prosperous lives and I give them props for that and wish them the best of luck. Others, however, have dropped from the top 10 ranks in terms of popularity from high school to the all infamous role of: "babymama".

Don't get me wrong. There are a few women who have been misled and deceived by the so-called "prince charming". They "fall in love", have a child or children, and assume that it's going to be "happily ever after". But way too often, the wolf in sheep's clothing reveals itself and by the time he jumps ship and ends the fairy tale of a relationship, she is left with debt, anger, grief, confusion, and of course CHILD/CHILDREN. These type of women who were did dirty have my sympathy and I can't help but admire them for taking the heartbreak in the chin and doing what they need to in order for them and their children to survive. That's one of the many definitions of a "woman" and I respect that.

And then there's the "babymamas". The ones who constantly complain about how "prince charming" turned their lives into pumpkins. The ones who would rather leech of tax payers dollars in the forms of section 8, rental assistance, welfare, and the ever-popular CHILD SUPPORT instead of doing whatever they can to provide for themselves. The ones who are foolish enough to keep sleeping with the same "prince charming" and make more babies that they can't support. The ones who stick their jealous noses up at single, hard-working, stand up guys-such as myself- simply because we chose not to go the route they took. The ones who dig themselves in deeper holes emotionally, financially, spiritually, and literally with every word of nonsense that comes out of their mouths, as well as their actions and poor decision-making.

Those are the types of women you need to stay away from, or put them in their place early because many of them simply don't know any better.

My overall view on this may be a tad bit biased because I'm a single man with two incomes and my own place of residence with no children, but one thing is indeed factual: Women with children and "babymamas" typically aren't the highest prospects as potential life mates. This revelation may be offensive to some, but it's absolutely true. However, I can almost guarantee you that the women who provide for their children instead of complaining about "what if", "he should've", and "I hate him" will get scouted before the "babymamas" do. Sometimes we have to rise and fall, but only off the strength of our blood, sweat, and determination is where we as people-especially single parents-can rise again.